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overcome anger wisely

A woman is very fond of orchids in stars.
He instructed the gardener to take care of all the plants, especially orchids beloved as he went out of town. The gardener was caring for the flowers belong to the woman and gave special attention to the orchids are displayed gracefully on a shelf.

On the day when she returned from a business trip, the gardener was tidying and watering all the plants.
He wanted to make sure employers find beautiful landscaped gardens.
However, he accidentally knocked over a rack where the orchids were so pots of existing fall and break.

Unexpectedly her home earlier than expected, he arrived home before the gardener finished tidying these orchids.
Gardener fearful dare not lift her face when she walked towards it.
Having seen it all, the woman into his house and not long after he called a gardener who had worked 7 years for him.

“Ma’am, I’m sorry because it was sloppy and destroy the orchids beloved mother. I will replace it, please mom cut my salary next month.
Please forgive me yes ma’am, “he said view of a sad face.
“Sir Diman, my goal to plant flowers, including orchids moon star is to be enjoyed, like to make people happy while enjoying the elegance.
Not to make people scared as you are feeling right now.
Orchids were also planted to make me grumpy when he destroyed.
I was very fond of orchids, but my heart is not bound to them.
Orchids that can not steal my joy and gladness pack Diman.
So you do not have to like it, I know people who work with you wholeheartedly. I do not want to hurt you, because orchids can be addressed, “she said wisely.

Outburst should not hurt the people we love, because;
—> We do not marry our spouses to vent anger when he makes a mistake or omission. We got married so that our lives happier.

—> We do not have a son / daughter to vent our emotions when we have problems at work or with business associates.
But the kids a place to pour our love and children are the objects of love for good parents.

—> We do not build friendships to vent his anger to our good friend when they do things we do not like.

Dispose of anger from our lives, because it led to pain and tenderness alone. Remember!
“Explosive anger which always begins with folly and ends with regret”.